Hotwife, cuckold, stag or swinger: what's the difference — and which one are you?

From the outside, they all look the same: a married couple, and someone else in the bed. But ask the couples themselves, and you'll hear four very different stories. One husband is proud. Another loves being teased. A third sees himself as the alpha who lends his wife out and takes her back. A fourth just wants a fun night with another couple where everybody plays.

These differences matter a lot. Not because you need a label — but because knowing what you actually want changes how you talk to your wife, who you look for, and what kind of night will really work for you.